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Does Anyone Else Hate When People Follow These Fashion Rules to a T?

By Swedan Margen

Does Anyone Else Hate When People Follow These Fashion Rules to a T?

You've heard the saying "Rules are meant to be broken," right? Well, it's never been truer than when it comes to fashion. Style is all about self-expression, individuality, and embracing who you are through the clothes you wear. So who made these so-called "rules" and decided we have to follow them? Not I.

Society has drilled these outdated fashion rules—from the idea that you can't wear white between Labor Day and Memorial Day to the notion that an outfit should only have one pattern or that your shoe color must match your bag color—into our heads for years, but now, it's time to tear them down once and for all. It's time to wear whatever we want, however we want, whenever we want. With that said, keep reading to discover the five fashion rules that need to be left in the past.

No White After Labor Day

Sara wears a green jacket, white sweater, white pants, and tan boots.

When Labor Day weekend ends, many believe it's time to store away their white clothing, particularly white jeans and drawstring pants. This outdated notion that white should not be worn after Labor Day overlooks how stylish white can appear in the fall and winter—arguably even more so than in summer. The contrast of white against darker shades like black and brown is extremely sophisticated, and pairing lighter fabrics like cotton and linen with heavier materials like leather and suede creates an effortlessly cool vibe. Therefore, flaunt your white ensembles, no matter the season or occasion, and don't look back.

Linen-Blend Pants
Zw Collection Embroidered Strap Dress

Zw Collection

Embroidered Strap Dress

Hattie Crop
La Ligne Solid Marin V Neck Sweater

La Ligne

Solid Marin V Neck Sweater

One Print at a Time

Grece wears a check short sleeve shirt, patterned midi skirt, blue kitten heels, and a bottega veneta tote bag.

If you love to dress boldly, pay attention. You no longer need to settle for just one patterned piece in your outfit. Whether you choose a striped blouse paired with a floral skirt or a check-print tee with polka-dot pants, feel free to mix prints. To ensure your outfit looks polished, keep your handbag and footwear simple. Solid-color leather accessories are fail-safe choices.

Étienne Oversized Shirt in Striped Cotton Poplin

j.crew

Étienne Oversized Shirt in Striped Cotton Poplin

Layla Skirt

MANGO

Printed Short Skirt

Plaid Shoulder Pad Shirt Zw Collection

Zw Collection

Plaid Shoulder Pad Shirt

Gwyneth Flounce-Hem Slip Skirt in Chiffon

J.Crew

Gwyneth Flounce-Hem Slip Skirt in Chiffon

Matching Your Shoe Color to Your Bag Color

Abi wears an ivory coat, ivory pants, black flats, and a red Savette bag.

When I help my friends assemble outfits for weddings, date nights, or everyday life, I often hear the same question: "I'm wearing black shoes, so I should wear a black bag, right?" It's a common assumption that shoes, bags, and even belts should match, but that's actually a rule we can throw out the window. In fact, intentionally not matching these pieces can create a more visually interesting and dynamic look. The unexpected combination of colors can make an outfit stand out in a way that feels fresh and very 2025.

Ballet Flats
Symmetry Pochette Suede Tote

SAVETTE

Symmetry Pochette Suede Tote

The Ophelia Slingback Flats

Madewell

The Ophelia Slingback Flats

Leather Shoulder Bag

JIL SANDER

Leather Shoulder Bag

Not Mixing Metals

Cortne wears a brown hat, mixed metal rings, and a black tank top.

It's probably clear by now that the through line between ignoring dated fashion rules is the idea of moving away from traditional matchy-matchy conventions and embracing creativity and individuality. Another example of this is mixing and matching metals when it comes to jewelry rather than wearing only warm gold pieces or cool silver ones. Mixing metals adds depth and visual interest to an outfit, creating a more dynamic and personalized look. Plus, it allows you to get more wear out of your investments, and who doesn't want that?

Shashi Ross Ring
The Edith Silver-Tone Bracelet

LIÉ STUDIO

The Edith Silver-Tone Bracelet

Lydia Earrings

JENNY BIRD

Lydia Earrings

Gold-Plated Cuff

COMPLETEDWORKS

Gold-Plated Cuff

Not Styling Black With Brown

Marilyn wears a black coat, white tee, black pants, white sandals, and a brown suede bag.

Not pairing black with brown is a thing of the past. In fact, many fashion people embrace these two colors, thoughtfully styling them for the office in the winter or for date nights in the spring. Mixing these colors creates a grounded and contemporary vibe for any outfit. The next time you're in a style rut, consider pairing a brown blouse with black trousers or a brown bag with sleek black kitten heels. You'll notice how it results in a sophisticated and expensive-looking ensemble, even if your pieces aren't designer.

Wide-Leg Essential Pant in Linen

j.crew

Wide-Leg Essential Pants

MANGO, Asymmetrical Fine-Knit Top

MANGO

Asymmetrical Fine-Knit Top

Leather Sandals With Rubber Sole

ZARA

Leather Sandals With Rubber Sole

Simona Cylinder Bag

Reformation

Simona Cylinder Bag

Originally published by whowhatwear.com. Syndicated material does not necessarily reflect the views of Vanity Fair Fashion.

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